Don’t Be Bothered By What They Say Of You

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Don’t concern yourself with what others say or write about you because that is giving into what they want. Just keep walking and do the best you can every single day of your life. The minute you give in, they’ve won the battle and you’ve lost yourself in anger, concentrating on their words. Pay them no mind and they’ll lose their mind hoping you catch of glimpse of their bitterness, envy, jealousy towards you. They admire your work. They admire your ethic but deep down inside, they can’t deal with what Allah has blessed you with, so they either speak about about you in private, try to destroy what you’ve worked for or create rumours but as long as you have tawakul (trust) in Allah, you tie your camel, trust me don’t worry about a thing. Keep working everyday single day of your life and your rewards and recognition is given to you from Allah and never yourself. Do things for the sake of Allah and be yourself. If they feel you are fake, it is a feeling of bitterness, jealousy and envy, which they created without really knowing the person you really are. At the end of the day, you have your life to live and they have their own but you, concentrate on living yours, while they waste away theirs, concentrating on destroying and wanting yours but never will they be successful because success can never be built on hate.

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Life Lessons I’ve Learned Thus Far

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Life lessons I’ve learned thus far:

Always look to learn from any avenues available. Education does not mean you have to be in an institution to be educated. Education is available every where and only a few clicks away.

Your body is an investment. A long term investment. What you decide to invest into it, is what you’ll get in return. Invest into the right things and your body will flourish and give back to you. Invest the wrong things into your body and your body will diminish over time, leaving you hurt and broken.

Never hold onto the past, as it does not define you, it only creates who you are today. Everything that has happened was a learning experience, so learn well from it and let it go. Close the book on it and write a new page in your life.

Don’t let your ego get in the way. Be the smaller person when you have to be and allow the individual to fuel their ego that will forever blind them. Sorry and forgiveness will take you a long way, while those who refuse to do so, will never grow and learn.

Love is never equal and we cannot love each other equally. Someone loves you more than you love them but this does not mean, you love them less, you just love them differently.

Be around positive people as this will fuel you to accomplish your goals, as they are doing the same. Minimize your surroundings with negative people and those who always complain. They will drain the life out of you and put you in a sad mood.

Always give things a try before you refuse. Who knows what you are missing out on and what you’ll learn.

Be generous, be kind, be loving, be happy, be free but don’t be a doormat, learn to say NO!

You are just as capable as every other person in the world, the difference is, they continued to strive and never gave up, while you did. Never give up, keep going, you don’t know how close you are.

Your personality, intelligence and character are more valuable than your looks. Work on those and you’ll be beautiful/handsome your whole life.

And lastly, know everything is the decree of Allah SWT. Learn to tie your camel and leave the rest to Him. Meaning, whatever it is you do in life, give an effort and leave the rest to Allah. As long as you put an effort into what you want and need, insha’Allah you’ll get. Don’t sit there hoping and wishing it happens if you never did anything. Even plants need water to grow.

There is obviously more but this is what my brain can process at this moment. Enjoy your weekend everybody, thank you for reading and supporting my blog.