You may not always get along and you may have many disagreements and fights but always be there for another. Siblings are after your parents, like a parent and probably even more, maybe a best friend. Don’t hold grudges, cheat or blackmail one another. When one of you is in need, look to fulfill that need to the best of your ability and if it can’t be fulfilled, don’t hold it against them because they have lives that need attention to. Understand, you may not always be of importance with your needs but know, you are loved dearly regardless and they remember you often. Every good that you have done, is not forgotten, even though you may think, they might have forgot. When you are away, they miss you but they never tell you and when you are close, sometimes they don’t pay close attention to what you are saying, it doesn’t mean they don’t care. Sometimes, we are preoccupied by social media and electronics and we forget, time with you is precious. One day, siblings will be married and long gone, then we will want that time with them again. One day, our parents will pass and we will miss those moments we never took advantage of. When they needed an ear, our eyes were glued to the screen. When they needed help, we ran to entertain our needs. Just for a moment in your life, look around you and see how they are aging and changing. Look at the moments you have missed. Look at the times you could have spent together, instead of spending hours playing video games, dressing up or scrolling on instagram. Society has enabled social media at our finger tips but in reality, disabled us from society. We share our happiness with the world by #hastaging, writing a status or snapchatting with people who don’t really care and would rather see our demise, instead of those you grew up with, who would make it of importance. Bond with one another, share your day, interact and see how close you really are. Life is not guaranteed to you and I and it is also unexpected, so take advantage of those around you in a good way. Stop holding the past against one another and look to see the good in each other, rather than hanging onto memories of betrayal. Don’t use each other only for your needs but use them grow that trust again and grow to love each other, as we are closer to each other, more than we know, as we share the same blood. Grew up in the same room, made each other cry, made each other smile and laugh, shared secrets and told each other everything will be okay because we knew in the end, you are all they ever had. You may not see eye to eye but that is okay because you want what is best for them and not to hurt them, even though you may not be always right. One day, it’ll be nothing but memories and regrets because we couldn’t forgive and forget. Holding back our tears, as we say our last goodbyes in your final breath. Don’t let death be the only time you let go of grudges but do it now. You are all they ever had, so embrace them, love them, share as many moments with them. Social media, so called friends and video games can wait. Time is passing and they are growing, soon they will be gone. Your siblings and parents are one of a kind, they wont ever exist again. What you have is rare, 1 in a 7 billion, special, annoying, can never buy, in existence and created to bond, grow and love with you.