We care too much what others think about us, without actually accepting what we think about ourselves. We value other people’s opinions of us, instead of what we think of ourselves. Sometimes, people are right about us but not all the time. If you are always waiting for someone’s opinion of you, to make you feel valuable, to make you feel loved, then you are in for many years of downs, rather than ups. Learn to accept yourself and be confident about who you are becoming. You’ll see things in yourself that you’ve never seen before because you’ve always expected people to see something in you first, then you accepted it.