Yesterday, I turned 27. Please don’t write happy birthday. Here are some lessons I learned.
Im too nice and eventually that gets the best of me. Im too forgiving but I learned it’s best to let people go who aren’t a positive force in your life. If they break you down now, they’ll always break you down later.
Your heart and mind will always conflict, so you look to outside sources to reassure what your mind has made up, even then, it is difficult to do what is right, even if it is hurting you.
An ugly personality with a beautiful face, is still ugly. No amount of products or surgery can change that.
Wisdom does not come from age but it comes from experiences.
Extract lessons from your hardships to teach others on how to be the strongest version of themselves. Your ability to teach is undermined by the ability of your mind.
No one in this world is ugly. No matter how many people will tell you that, it is up to you to believe it or not. Be confident in your looks and how you were created.
Your body is an amanah (trust) so treat it with care. The better you take care of it now, the more it’ll benefit you when you are older. Go workout, get in shape and stay determined. A flower does not grow in a day and your body will not change in a day. It takes time and a lot of effort.
Keep your circle of friends small and keep those who are loyal in. Everyone else is just to keep you company.
Hardships are never to break you down but to make you stronger. Tough times don’t last, tough people do.
Pancakes are the best
Learn lessons from those who have been through more than you. You’ll learn from what they did right and you’ll avoid what they did wrong.
We are all selfish in some ways. Lessons are learned through realization not from those who are judging you.
Learn to love yourself first because self love will always exist, while a secondary love is temporary.
Always encourage those around you. Help them overcome their fears. Not because you expect them to return the favour but because Allah’s blessings are greater.
Always smile, joke around and enjoy yourself. There are others in this world who have less than you but appreciate everything more.
Everything is by the will of Allah, so no matter what you decide in life, if it is not meant to be, it wont be but best believe, it’ll be replaced with what is meant to be.
If your hardships aren’t bringing you closer to Allah, then your hardships will always exist. Get closer to the one who created you by putting your head on the floor and see your hardships depart.
Choose your life partner wisely. If they don’t pray salah, if they drink and understand the Qu’ran differently, then they aren’t for you.
Any woman can wear a hijab and any man can grow a beard but it is the actions that count, not the image presented.
And finally, be in service to others but not as a slave. You are a slave to Allah and not a slave to money. Correct your relationship with Allah SWT and you’ll be successful in everything you decide to do.