The “American Dream”



People in under developed countries see the “American Dream” lifestyle and crave it when there is nothing to it. You basically just work, save money and buy expensive things to be seen by others. To be loved by others in a materialistic way. You aren’t left alone. People are always in your business. The “American Dream” is an illusion which does not bring happiness. It brings comfort. Comfort and happiness are two different feelings. I can go lay in my bed and be comfortable but when I lay in this bed, I am not happy but I am comfortable. Money is nothing but comfort and the “American Dream” is nothing but comfort. It is not happiness. So when they look at this lifestyle, they are seeing something totally different than what we are living here. That is not to say money is bad but it is nothing but comfort. It’s an item of and for survival not happiness. Then again, you can still survive without money but for how long?

Choosing The Right Partner – Part 2 – Compatibility

In this video I discuss how it is important to find someone that is compatible with you and not just someone who is simply based on looks. I also explain how a woman who had contacted me was considering marrying an individual just to protect her parents reputation even though she was not interested.

Thank You

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Assalamu alaikum (Peace Be Upon You).

When I had started this blog a year ago, I didn’t know what to expect from it or myself. For many years, I’ve been writing poetry which gradually turned into long “essays” which was published on my facebook. Eventually, I was influenced into starting a blog and I had started onw. I wasn’t sure what to do with my blog or what it would turn out to be. Today, alhumdulilah (thanks to Allah) I’ve written about several subjects that have touched places in the world that I didn’t know existed. Geography isn’t my strong point but when I look at all the countries in that list, all I can say is I would have never dreamed that one day, I would amass these countries reading articles, posts from a regular dude in Toronto. I actually didn’t even know there was a country called Isle Of Man. When it popped up, I was like really? There is a country called the Isle Of Man? Thanks to my trusty friend google, I had found out it is near Ireland.

I’ve received messages from people that have brought tears to my eyes. The types of situations Allah SWT has placed people in due to tests, trials, decree, really opened up a new experience for me. Whether it was heartbreaks, magic done to them by their own family members to separate husband and wife and several other things  and even messages saying thank you for being an inspiration. If you were to read the types of things people have been through, you would only feel one way, that is extremely sad. I would never hope for anyone to go through what they are going through today and this should also let many aware of what can be done by people within our family, whom say they love us but due to jealousy or whatever it may be, they get others to put magic on you,it is sad but it is a true reality.

It has also been an absolute thrill and pleasure to connect to people in such a simple way and making a difference with just a few words no matter what it is you write. You don’t know what types of people you may reach out to through your words, so that is why I say to myself, whatever I intend to write on my blog, it should be to help others out. I understand people have a different approach to their blogs, some keep it as diaries and even that helps people relate and also makes a difference in their lives as well. You may be read things about marriage on my blog, positivity, heartbreak, how to combat sihr (magic) and so much more but all this is only by the permission of Allah, through what I have been blessed with.

To those that have subscribed to my blog, shared whatever I have written, I’ve helped make a difference in your life, I just want to say thank you for reading and subscribing. I, insha’Allah hope to continue with this blog and continue to make a positive impact on people’s lives with these words, this skill I have been blessed with by Allah SWT. I always say, if anyone needs someone to talk to about anything, whatever it may be, you are more than welcome to ask for help and I will not judge you for whatever it is you tell me nor will I expose it to others, unless of course, I have your permission and that itself is also to help others through your situation.

I’d like thank you all for reading and I look forward to writing more, insha’Allah.

I Can Live With I Tried My Best But I Can’t



I don’t know what my future holds but I do know if I don’t try to pave a better tomorrow, it will hold nothing but regret. I can live with I tried my best but I can’t live not trying at all. So I wake up each day hoping for the best and making a path towards a better future which begins with a positive mindset which flushes out the negatives that will prevent my progress. There is always a better tomorrow but tomorrow begins with a better a belief of who you are today, who you’ve become today and how each test, trial, hardship left a lesson of growth and not regression. I’m hopeful for what is going to be there tomorrow because hope is great. Hope leaves me optimistic. Hope leaves me believing that anything is possible through effort and determination. I can and will not be left with regret but only the words I tried and i did my best. The feeling of satisfaction even though I may have failed but I know I gave it my all. 100% of me everyday, so don’t ever tell me you can’t if you’ve never tried. Don’t leave room for “if I did that I would’ve.” No, do it, experience it, dive in and come out feeling accomplished even if you didn’t get what you aimed for. You know why? Because the lessons are going to be more valuable than the accomplishment. It has taught you more than you know and it has implemented a story, a memory in your mind that will help you overcome any obstacle because you overcame fear and tried.

Never Stop Believing In Your Dreams



No matter what it is you do in life, never stop believing in your dreams, EVER! Constantly stay optimistic for them to come true. Constantly pursue them. Wake up everyday and say to yourself, you will achieve it. Be dedicated and show commitment. If you are not committed to what you want to achieve, you’ll never in your life reach your goals. Dreams come true because of commitment. Dreams come true because of dedication. Dreams come true because you want to succeed as bad as you want to breathe. There will be days you want to give up. There will be days where the progress you made aren’t making the fruits of your labor. Everything takes time and everything happens at the right time, not because you think it is the right time. You need to put the time in in order for time to reveal your progress, which is leading towards your success, your dreams, your goals coming true. Don’t ever give up hope and no matter what people tell you, they don’t live your life, walk in your shoes and deal with the issues you deal with it. They are like window shoppers observing an item and critiquing. Hope, optimism, patience, commitment and dedication will lead to your dreams coming true. Don’t ever stop believing in them and yourself.